Support mental health by participating in ‘Buddy Check for Jesse’, a program created in memory of Jesse Short-Gershman. Buddy Check for Jesse was developed for Hockey Coaches to deliver to their teams. It began with Jesse’s dad, Dr. Stu Gershman, wanting to help his other two boys feel supported and to make their teammates know how important mental health is.
Stu believes that Coaches of ‘Canada’s Game’ are in a unique position to share this positive message to help raise awareness that mental health issues can affect anyone. Coaches are respected by their players and the players need to know that their coaches care about them. The idea is to create an environment where teammates support one another and are more aware of potential mental health issues so they are prepared to step in with support when they see a teammate, friend or family member struggling.
Stu’s goal is to destigmatize mental health challenges and to empower and encourage youth and young adults to support one another. On the last weekend of October each year, players can use green tape (the colour for mental health) on their sticks to demonstrate their awareness and support of this message. Buddy Check for Jesse provides tape, posters, wallet cards and notes to help Coaches share this important message with their teams.
Jesse’s family hopes that through creating this program in Jesse’s honour, it will help other youth and families.
Owen, age 11, battles panic attacks, anxiety and depression with bravery and courage. Buddy Check for Jesse changed the way he and others viewed his illnesses and gave him the support and purpose he needed for recovery and continued inspiration.